Threesome fantasies are particularly common for men who married at an early age, or who didn't really 'sow their wild oats' before they settled down and committed themselves, so you'll often find newly divorced men, or middle aged men, seeking to expand their sexual horizons and experiment with threesomes, and orgies. However, for men that are still in relationships, it can be quite a dangerous thing to actually make your fantasies into reality, especially if you try to include your current partner in the proceedings.
One thing about the threesome fantasy is that it can be vibrant, especially if your real-life partner or lover is the focus of the action. It's often seen as a way to breathe new life into a stagnant or predictable sex-life. However, it can be very easy to misread the signs and end up in a situation where someone, or all of the participants get hurt.
The popularity of using professional escorts for a threesome seems to come down to one thing – that it's going to be double the fun, double the pleasure and double the excitement. That having two lovers is so much more fun than interacting with one sexual partner. However, one thing that many fantasists overlook is that in your fantasy, you're the one creating the story, you create every move, every bit of dialogue, the excitement and the outcome. Everything is perfect, including your libido and your ability to satisfy all concerned. In reality, however, it might not work out that way. Men's libido can be up-and-down to say the least; you might find that the reality doesn't actually you on, and what you thought would excite the other participants may not appeal to them at all, unless you happen to have discussed the whole scenario in minute detail beforehand.
If the male is already in a relationship and tries to include his current partner, unless both are really into the idea it's quite usual to find that some form of persuasion or coercion is needed to get the other partner on board. This can lead to all kinds of negative feelings, not just of sexual jealousy but of betrayal and even anger, especially if one person feels that they have been coerced into playing out the fantasy. In these cases, it's probably best to just leave the threesome as a fantasy to spice up your time in the bedroom.
Whatever your fantasy, remember London Valentine’s would be a great place to start.
